Overcomplimenting

Imagine the situation: you go on a date with a woman you've been admiring for more than several days. She personifies your idea of a perfect lady without any doubts or exaggerations. You love the way she looks and can't stop fitfully repeating how beautiful she is, how amazingly she looks tonight, how cool her dress is and how superstylish she is.

What impression do you think your overcomplimenting makes on a woman you are with? The answer suggests the key word 'pathetic'. Indeed, extra complimenting sounds quite ridiculous and odd, especially if your compliments are paid in a slightly chaotic and awkward manner.

If you pay extra compliments to a woman, it means that you make her see you in a slightly childish light. She won't be able to see a gallant adult man in you if you overcompliment her like an underexperienced overimpressed boy. That's why try to think of not more than a few special compliments for your lady instead of bombarding her with awkward ones. It's quality that matters here most.

Overcomplimenting may work in certain cases though – when a woman who's with you is under age and feels just so cool being overcomplimented, or if a woman is not too picky or lacks refreshingly critical approach to men who approach her.

Of course, if your compliments are all very impressive and filled with charm, you can allow yourself to overcompliment a little, but don't get carried away. Impress your lady with other things – a good conversation centered at her, your attention paid to her only and other similar things which will work wonders with her impression on you – just like your quality compliments.